Been season ticket holders in the exact same spot for ages now (quite hard to move 6 people further in when some memberships lapse.). And over the last season and this one, a new family is now sitting in front of half of us. Normally it's just a dad and his kids which is all good. But sometimes, it looks like his old man comes as well. Now i'm quite a vocal guy, I do swear every now and again at the ref. No slurs or anything of the like, just a "fuck off ref", "bullshit". So i understand if others want me to shut up a bit. Which i have done in the past when asked. But this time it was a bit weird because that old man who occasionally sits with that family started to sneakly take pictures of myself and some of my mates. Post those same photos to some people and then those people would talk about how much they wanted to punch me the face. Might of been happening before, but this time my partner was sitting behind him. And as she is only a bit of fan, was more interested in why someone was taking photos of me instead of the game. Which weirdly i'd have only a small issue about if it was said to my face, and would of settled down during the raiders match if talked to about it. But because it wasn't face to face, it kinda striked a nerve.
Now i let my mates and partner leave just after the song but i stayed behind to talk to the guy. Told him that he should just of said somthing instead of taking pictures and talking online. More than happy to settle down as we're all fans here, i'm not gonna get into a fit of rage if he just asks. Dude just looked shocked, said yeah mate then went stright into the crowd.
I really don't wanna make going to a league game awful for anyone. Thats why outside of it being a bit of a snake way to go about things, i don't hate the old dude (unlike my partner who was furyious) He very likely just wants to enjoy the game and atmopshare the same as anyone else. And previously i thought as long as im not the worst person in earshot i should be fine. In this case that would be the group of blokes behind us yelling "fuck off you ranga cunt" anytime horse had the ball. But after this experience i'm not 100% on where the line is. Outside of this just being a cathartic way to talk about somthing i've been thinking about, for other regulars, what is your line between a loud good crowd and loud obnoxious fans?