Yes, the health systems in Europe couldn't cope with the elderly and comorbidities but we were last cab off the rank and could have prepared for that. As I said, we were never told our health system was/would struggle with patients.
Agree, don't think it was sinister, just complete incompetence and a reluctance to take onboard help from experienced people and as is usual in these circumstances, once you're in the hole it can be damn hard to climb out with any credibility.
Anyways, enough said, I have an axe to grind with loss of family during the period and no access to terminal loved ones nor the ability to bring family home when needed. There is always an alternative if you're prepared to look hard enough.