So you do want better.This think is incredibly toxic and is a major driving of todays issues. This is the “weak” parenting I’m talking about.
Also “better” is subjective asf. Most parent translate that to “easier” which breeds weakness. I want my kids to be smarter, fitter, better read, more creative, wealthier, better educated than I was. If you notice there’s nothing “easy” about any of that.