So you do want better.This think is incredibly toxic and is a major driving of todays issues. This is the āweakā parenting Iām talking about.
Also ābetterā is subjective asf. Most parent translate that to āeasierā which breeds weakness. I want my kids to be smarter, fitter, better read, more creative, wealthier, better educated than I was. If you notice thereās nothing āeasyā about any of that.