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[Noitall]

Currently single for nearly two years, never married, but did have a delightful evening with a lovely French Canadian single mum the other evening, so will see what happens there

#oohlala

Any ideas on her religious views?

 

[John Nick]

Currently single for nearly two years, never married, but did have a delightful evening with a lovely French Canadian single mum the other evening, so will see what happens there

#oohlala

Good luck

 

[Evil_Mush]

Any ideas on her religious views?

Well she's probably not a fundamentalist Christian based on certain events that transpired later that evening

 

[John Nick]

Well she's probably not a fundamentalist Christian based on certain events that transpired later that evening

What. She didn't swallow the wine??

 

[Noitall]

Well she's probably not a fundamentalist Christian based on certain events that transpired later that evening

Good luck brother, you’ve had a test run. You can now decide if it’s a keeper.

 

[Worried2Death]

Good luck brother, you’ve had a test run. You can now decide if it’s a keeper.

He'd just better hope she doesn't read this forum

 

[Evil_Mush]

He'd just better hope she doesn't read this forum

She thought my Warriors jersey on one of my dating app pics was a Phoenix jersey, so shouldn't be an issue

 

[Noitall]

He'd just better hope she doesn't read this forum

He’s given her a glowing endorsement.

 

[Beastmode]

Good luck brother, you’ve had a test run. You can now decide if it’s a keeper.

This is the way.

 

[Noitall]

This is the way.

Once you get the lust out of the way, then you start to know if you can be with the person I reckon.

 

[Beastmode]

Once you get the lust out of the way, then you start to know if you can be with the person I reckon.

The way i see it, intimacy and sex is both natural and healthy.
Its a huge part of a relationship.
If the chemistry isnt there for whatever reason, then there's no point waiting until marriage to find out.

Like buying a new coat. Need to try it on first to make sure it fits and looks good on you. Dont know why, but so many clothes I think looks good, always looks terrible when i'm wearing it haha

 

[Noitall]

The way i see it, intimacy and sex is both natural and healthy.
Its a huge part of a relationship.
If the chemistry isnt there for whatever reason, then there's no point waiting until marriage to find out.

Like buying a new coat. Need to try it on first to make sure it fits and looks good on you. Dont know why, but so many clothes I think looks good, always looks terrible when i'm wearing it haha

It’s not as important to everyone and that goes hand and hand with what you mentioned, it’s about getting to know each other. No point furthermore to walk down the aisle with someone and then find it’s more important to one of the parties than the other, that can be a recipe for disaster also. It’s a big commitment to choose 1 person to spend the rest of your life with as your wanting a lover, a friend and a partner. Children are another commitment and can be the only reason some couples stay together.

 

[The Warrior Waka]

30 years. And still manage to get it up once a week. Well, Once a fortnight

 

[Bay39er]

30 years. And still manage to get it up once a week. Well, Once a fortnight

Maybe once in a while???

 

[The Warrior Waka]

Maybe once in a while???

Yes. That's more like it!

 

[Beastmode]

So what drove everyone to tying the knot?

Not gonna lie

We were living together

Got lazy

She got pregnant…

 

[sup42]

So what drove everyone to tying the knot?

Not gonna lie

She got pregnant

you make it sound like you had nothing to do with it.

 

[pbrown011235]

you make it sound like you had nothing to do with it.

now that definitely would be one for the religion thread!

 

[wizard of Tauranga]

So what drove everyone to tying the knot?

Societal pressure and expectations.

Commitment expected from families so you can move forward with getting a house and start a family.

 

[Kiwi In Tasmania]

I have been with my partner for 12 years and it's virtually marriage just without a piece of paper. That will come next year.

We have been in an open relationship the last 4 years and we have not had an issue at all. If anything our relationship is stronger.
Curious to know if anyone else is in one??

It seems to be more common with same sex relationships. (Which we are in)

For us we look at sex and love as two different things and have alot of trust between us.