When I was 7 my mum started letting me and my best friend go fishing unsupervised (there was only one place we could go and we were well aware that if we get too close to the Water we are playing with our lives around the Manukau).
It was a good thing Ma did that, let us get away from the daily shit in the hood as kids, pretty much became my mental escape and therapy.
Not having an old man to teach me, I used to get books out of Papakura Public Library.
We went hand lining at Hingaia bridge (on the way to Kingseat - Waiau Pa, there was a take away there, pretty much the closest spot to Papakura).
Anyway, me and my mate it turns out sucked at the actual fishing part, we made dough baits that would come off in the current or the first bite, the prize quarry on those missions were Yellow eyed Mullet (sprats).
It took us years to finally land a sprat, but that is where I learned about the meditative part of fishing over the results part. I think I would have taken it for granted maybe if we had of caught stuff the first attempt.
One time I came home with a massive birds nest in my mono filament landline, I was used to cotton, so I learned that day how fancy lines tangle bad, especially if you try to pull on the end and make it tighter.
Dylan Walkers Great Grandfather (Christie Stan Warren - direct descendant of Fletcher Christian - known on Pitcairn Island as the strongest man on the Island - and the master fisherman) was living with us at the time, he watched me in the lounge trying to cut the tangle out "Noooo he say's" he gestures to me to hand him the line (he had almost no English).
So I watch in amazement as he untangles it in seconds, re-tangles it, then demonstrates slowly the how to part.
That old man had a great story about a Swordfish that killed his mate, a fish that was known and had its own name - Dylan's G. Grandfather set out to avenge his mate and after weeks of hunting it he finally got into a battle of Ernest Hemingway proportions. That fishes sword is still on the Island it took more than a day on his hand line to get the beast.